Welcome to Cross Way United Methodist Church

Davy Crockett: King of the Wild Frontier was on last night. I watched it. I relished it. In the early VHS days of my youth, it was the only movie the local library offered, which I liked. I have no idea how many times I watched it, yet here I was watching it again... as an adult. I suppose the story captures my adventurous side. It is a story I can obviously hear over and over and still 'learn' from.

Same narrative... re-approached... evolving message.

Goal: 50 Pledges
Currently: 30 Pledges

Thank you to the 30 families who have already turned in your pledges! We are well over half way to our goal of 50 pledges.

Why are pledges important? There is a day coming when we will need the help of a lending institution to purchase land and build buildings to expand our ministries. One of the first things they will ask: How many pledged givers do you have?

Their experience has shown them with “X” number of pledged givers, a church can support “Y” (capital to use to build) to build “Z” (size and style of ministry center). 50 pledges may be a large goal for us, even if we hit 40 pledges we are showing annual growth and that is a trend we can celebrate.

X Number of Givers = Y Amount of Capital = Z Size and Style of Ministry Center

Does the amount pledged matter? Yes, our giving coupled with God's expected yet unplanned provision determines the ministries we can offer. God's provision through our faithful giving sets the bar. If we want a next level Youth Program, we need to fund it. If we want a next level Children's program, we have to fund it. Our experience has shown if everyone is attentive to God's leading and participates, God then makes a way. Your pledged gift matters at Cross Way.

Your pledge of any amount matters. If you have not already done so, please take a few minutes to make a pledge and make a difference. You can CLICK HERE to make your pledge online or you can still pick up a paper card at church on Sunday.

If you have wondered if your pledge will make a difference, this letter is my personal appeal to say, "Yes" your pledge matters. We need your help.

Next month, Cross Way will have extra focus on our growth in giving in 2015. Our growing church requires funding to fulfill its calling and add vitally needed ministry staff. Many of you have heard my personal story and perspective on tithing (giving 10% back to God from the 100% God has given us)... if not, you’ll hear next month why my family tithes. As a once skeptic of “churches asking for money” type guy, I once felt awkward asking the people of churches I served to share in the giving work of ministry. I have a very different perspective nowadays. Great ideas require great generosity. Without your generosity, we cannot conduct the missions and ministries God has called us to. You and I ARE God’s plan to fulfill God’s calling, and our generosity is the only limiting factor in what we are able to do. Life and growth are expensive.

Billy Echols Richter shared the following article with me a while back written by a lay person. It is appropriately titled “Why I Will Always Belong to a Church That Needs Money.” I invite you read and reflect. You’ll never think the same of what we do.

See you Sunday!

Why I Will Always Belong to a Church That Needs Money
by Don Linscott

On July 23, 1970, my wife, Connie, gave birth to a beautiful baby boy. For three years, we had tried unsuccessfully to start a family so our joy was great with the arrival of what was to be our only biological child. We later adopted a daughter. Lance was born before it became acceptable for the father to be present in the delivery room. (A fact for which I have ever been grateful!) I waited in the hallway just outside the delivery room. At precisely 4:13 p.m., I heard a sound I will never forget — Lance’s first cry. The nurse emerged with a smile and said, “You have a baby boy.” I casually responded, “Yes, I know.” I had never doubted we would have a son. I could hardly wait to get Connie and Lance out of the hospital and back home so I could get my hands on them.

The wonderful glow of fatherhood was soon dimmed, however, when I was asked to visit the business office of the hospital. They wanted me to pay for Lance! In fact, it seemed to me that my wife and child might be held hostage until the hospital bill was settled. I wrote the check paying all the expenses in full, freed my family, and we made our escape. That check turned out to be only the first of hundreds, maybe thousands, I would write on Lance’s behalf.

Children are expensive. There was formula and food to buy. Doctor visits and vaccinations assaulted my banking account. Diapers and toys took their toll. And clothes were a constant drain. Just about the time we built a great wardrobe for the kid, he would grow, forcing us to start all over again. As his age and size increased, so did the expenses. Soon, it was baseball gloves, Nike shoes, and uniforms. There were glasses for his eyes and braces for his teeth. And then, disaster struck. Lance became a teenager! Now it was cars and dates and name-brand clothes. Then came college. Lance had always, and only, wanted to be an architect. It seemed to me he would be in school until he was 42 years old. Expenses soared! Tuition, books, and drawing tools led the long list of essential expenditures. But, of course, just like parents everywhere, we were happy to be able to help him and we did all we could to support his growth and his dreams.

And then, one day, Lance died.

On Halloween Day 1991, we buried 21-year-old Lance in our church’s country cemetery. That afternoon, we walked away from his grave and since that day, we have never spent another nickel on Lance. That’s how I learned it. Death is cheap. Death can be sustained without expense. It is living that is costly. It is growth that is expensive. Our dreams, visions, and hopes require sacrifice. Death doesn’t! That’s why I will always belong to a church that needs money. A living, growing, thriving church will always require the continual, consistent, and conscientious financial support of its members.